Don’t jump to conclusions about people
I picked this up from the happy guy at www.thehappyguy.com and I like it
“People are like icebergs.
I don’t mean that people are cold,
just that most of who they are
hides below the surface,
where you will never see them.
Icebergs, if you have seen them, can sometimes overwhelm you, as they shoot up high into the air. As majestic and giant as they might seem, only a small fraction of the iceberg is above water. Most lurks in anonymity below.
Don’t jump to conclusions about people. Most of what there is to know, you will never know.”
This is also true for your partner. don’t assume you know him.
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