You can shift your perspective from being a victim to being a creator. You can move from the shadow to the sunny side of the street. To get there you need to shift your resonance with ‘failure’ scripts to resonance with success scripts.
How to do this?
Well, it does take some practice to watch your thoughts and feelings and to turn around your negative perceptions and attitudes.
If you belong to those people who work well with inner images and visualisation, you will find a whole chapter in my book : Growing through Joy on that venue.
You can even download the content and some parts as a free E-book version or read it on screen.