"Do you want to shift energetic patterns that hold Codependency and Relationship Addiction in place?"
Dr. Ulla Sebastian; Visioform.com
Relationship Addiction is focused on relationships as the solution to inner pain, loneliness and emptiness. In Relationship Addiction, the relationship or the need for romance is all consuming. Nothing else in life has equal importance.
The Relationship addict has very intense emotions including anger, fear, hate and love for the other person, and it is this extreme positive or negative intensity that differentiates Relationship Addiction from habits where we often also develop a craving for the object of desire.
An addiction usually affects and includes the body, emotions and the mind.
On the physical level, our brain indeed creates a chemical, PEA that creates the thrill and excitement that we experience when we fall in love. When this person drops out of our life the body produces withdrawal symptoms such as shakiness, cramps or loss of appetite.
We all may have experienced such symptoms at the loss of a loved one. In case of Relationship Addiction, there is also a desperate need to regain this person or relationship back, accompanied by an increasing sense of guilt or shame about ones weakness to let go of this relationship.
On an emotional-mental level, being in love makes most people feel good. In case of Relationship Addiction, it creates a feeling of being on top of the world, feeling drunken by love, being euphoric beyond any sense of reality about the steps necessary to turn the attraction into a workable relationship.
When these feelings fade away, the Relationship addict will do anything to regain this love even at the price to submerge their own personality into the loved one by fully identifying with their interests and needs.
In Relationship Addiction, the addict is often obsessed with finding the prince or princess that will be THE ONE FOREVER and solve all the problems. Life without that relationship seems to be meaningless.
The desperate need for finding that person or regaining a lost relationship can destroy all other parts of life, create chaos, tension and anxieties and threat life itself when chronic grief turns into suicidal thoughts.
Because Relationship Addiction gets supported through the ideal of romantic love in movies and songs, its actually quite difficult to crack the self-delusion that is part of Relationship Addiction. All addictions have an element of denial but in case of Relationship Addiction it is more severe.
Relationship addicts often dont see the connection between their pain and suffering and the illusionary quality of what they seek as love.
The first step would be to recognise the Relationship Addiction as such and then to take the necessary steps to fulfil all those needs that have been delegated to THE ONE. This may require finding out what you can do to be good to yourself, to love yourself and to appreciate the good things in your life.
Another important step is to accept that you may be single for a long time.
Start to develop a wide variety of interests and activities, meet people and make new friends. This will make your company more pleasant, give you practice in developing social skills, and increase your chances of finding a compatible partner to cope with everyday life.
With a good network of friends and acquaintances and exploring new and interesting ways to share your life with them, the emptiness and painful longing will fade away.
As Relationship Addiction is so deeply rooted, you may need extra help in understanding the dynamics of Relationship Addiction and in shifting the energetic patterns that hold the addiction in place so that you can develop healthy relationship patterns and communication skills.
I offer distance courses where I shift those energetic patterns through a broad range of healing modalities such as movement, breathing, colour or sound.
The course will give you insight into the underlying structure of your Relationship Addiction and teach you techniques of how to overcome it.
With this work, I am delighted to share forty years of research, work with thousands of people from all over the world and a lifelong experience of Selfgrowth and transformation with you to assist you in overcoming Relationship Addiction faster, less painful and more effective.
Distance courses work with wave patterns that reach beyond time and space. Personal presence is not required to fully benefit from it. You can sit comfortably at home and pace the process according to your needs.
During the course, you have a community of peers in the form of a forum and chat with whom you can share your questions, goals and results to deepen and enrich your experience.
The benefits of these courses for you will be to:
You are also very welcome to activate your own self help resources. I offer books, free articles and a free course with suggestions of how to overcome Relationship Addiction.
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